I have been very frustrated with the hobby this last year. I have been unable to book a top provider, only ones who do not check references or former playmates. It has made me depressed and as a result, I made the decision to retire. I realize this post is hobby suicide but if you are already dead, you can't kill me again. Recently with nothing to loose, I pressed one of the providers who canceled last minute on me as to why! I was shocked as to what I found. You can check my profile to verify the facts.
About a year ago I saw Freya Fantasia, we had a good time and I left a positive review. She in turn of her own free will left me a white list referral and said I could use her as a reference. She even keeps me notified of her travel plans to OC in hopes we will meet again. Until now she was even on my lets get reacquainted list..
What I found was that this snake in the grass has been telling other providers, behind may back, I am a bad guy .. Before posting this topic I had some discussions with her. Her response indicated it was planned and intentional and she would do it again. She sees nothing wrong with what she did. At the core of her arguenment was she said I stayed too long and wasted her time. I will not get into it on this, only to say there are two sides to every story. Apparently she did not have a good time and decied to get even. She devised a plan to make sure I would feel her wrath for a very long time. Even after I contacted her she said she would still would like to see me and saw nothing wrong with what she did. Apparently I was not that bad of person for her to see again, but I was bad enough she had to go out of her way to make sure no one else would see me.
She has ruined my reputation and my integrity. If she changed her mind about her endorsement, A normal person would have contacted me and said "I think it would be better if you did not use me as a reference" She did not because it was her plan all along. This silent attack went on for over a year. I had no Idea. I never saw her after that first visit or sent her unsolicited emails/txts. Talk about a time waister, I have spent the last year trying to make a date only to be bad mouthed by her! In a hobby where you live and die by your reputation she has killed mine.
This post is a serious accusation. It is my word, a top 100 reviewer against a top 100 provider. There are some of you who know me and know this goes against my character. I have been in the hobby for 5 years, not something a person with a bad reputation could do. Some of you will side with her others will not. I don't care, Do not loose sight that this is Not about what happened during the session but what SHE did after. I will not respond to this post one way or the other. I also think it is very bad form for the providers I contacted not to say anything other than to cancel or not respond when they received such information. I do not say bad things about people, it is better not to say anything than to attack someones character behing their back. This however rises to the occasion, she encompasses all that is wrong with the hobby and our society, she has launched a personal attack on me behind my back. No doubt she will chime in as to why i am a bad guy but consider this... Why would she give a white list referral and say to use her as a reference if she did not feel that way. Then tell me she wants to see me again, and sends emails to that affect. And never say any thing is wrong. How wrong can that be? For those of you who do not see that as wrong, I choose not to play with you and you need to get some character if you want to set an example for the children of the world.
Gents look out she is evil and may do something to you too!
Beam me up Scottie there is no "human" life here
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